Sunday, June 24, 2012

Proud Parents



Kiwi the Kitten
     They say dogs are man's best friend. But what about the rest of the animal kingdom? It's clear to see that since the beginning, man has had the company of other animals, just Google "Pet Bonds" and see for yourself. Rows among rows of pictures will be displayed of human and animal love. The best of this love is found in first time pet owners. They're the ones that take giant leaps to meet every need of their new friend, while the rest of us, who are familiar to animals, see them as spoiling. Yes, maybe a lot of the "extras" aren't necessities, but the love that is the motive is truly sweet.

     Two siblings, a brother and sister had asked me to come to visit them and their brand new pets. She had gotten a kitten, he a rabbit. It was with ecstasy that I went to visit them and what I found was this "new" love. When the kitten was placed in my arms I, being a previous owner of a few cats, tried to cuddle her. But it was clear that the cat wanted nothing to do with me...I was strange. I had a bit more success with the rabbit, but not much. "Ralph," the owner said to him. "Be nice." The dwarf lop's powerful legs scratched at my arms until eventually I was forced to put him back on the ground, where he was happy to eat grass from his harness.

     Oh well. I thought. But what was really nice to see was the owner's interaction with the animals. "We've trained her," The cat's owner said. "She licks your nose when she wants down." Among other things, I discovered the cat was also being potty trained when I went to use the bathroom and found a red ring filled with cat litter on the top of the toilet seat. We had fun watching the animals natural instincts as well. The owner would let the cat off her harness and, from a close distance, throw her towards the base of the tree. We'd watch the cat's claws grip the bark and climb to the highest branches. Of course, the fun part was having to climb up the tree and bring her down. "Firefighter." I called it. As for the rabbit's enthralling instincts, I enjoyed watching his nose twitch as he picked the clovers out from the grass.



     After the fun, the owners took turns snuggling their pets. When the girl picked up her kitten, the cat seemed to melt in her arms. Purring, licking the tip of her nose and meowing sweetly. The rabbit squirmed constantly in my eyes, but when cuddled by his owner he was happy to sit on his lap and be mauled. The cuteness of it all was unbearable. 


     Other than the fact that animals don't take care of themselves, I think we can all agree that they make great companions. I know that after that short visit, I left with a joy bubbling up inside of me both for the proud parents-who are in for the rides of their lives-and for the animals who are sure to have a happy life.   

Ralph enjoying a belly rub.



 

Saturday, June 23, 2012

Chasing Shadows

She returned to the nursery, and found Nana with something in her mouth, which proved to be the boy’s shadow. As he leapt at the window Nana had closed it quickly, too late to catch him, but his shadow had not had time to get out; slam went the window and snapped it off.
–JM Barrie. Peter Pan.
     
     Interesting things, shadows are. Mocking and teasing, so close, but unreachable. They’re possibly the peskiest things and still, some of us are able to find the greatest friends in them. Tonight, while standing on my deck, something about the way the shadows were relaxing on the fence boards caught my attention and I was presented with a new challenge-to capture them.
     
     Let me tell you, it’s no easy task. Capture a shadow, yeah right. Just when you think you have them they change their minds and switch shape and you have to start all over again. If you’re lacking patience, then I would suggest finding a different hobby, I almost did myself. But then I discovered a strategy. They don’t expect you to sneak up on them, the shadows. Most of us try to get at them in plain sight; it’s like a lion walking into a watering hole and expecting the gazelles not to run. Impossible, when they know your there. But if you’re careful you might just prove successful. 


     Slowly, ever so slowly, walk towards the shadow, but not to his face. No. Go up from behind and when you're a few feet away, pull out your camera. Steady it. Zoom. Focus. And snap the shutter button. Jump out from behind with a shout and he'll never know what hit him. It's great fun, I promise you. And sometimes, they'll even play along!
     

 



     

Friday, June 22, 2012

Brace Yourself...My pearl.



     Wednesday June 13, 2012. Mom and I pull into the parking lot. My nose is buried in the pages of Half Brother, by Kenneth Oppel while my little sister Emmah,sits in the backseat, finding a groove to the music on the radio. Today, things change. I'm getting braces.

     I don't really know how I should feel about this, maybe I should be nervous or maybe I should be dreading that I'll be metal mouth and train tracks for the next two years, but the only emotion I can pin down is excitement. "You ready for this?" Mom asks. I shrug.
     
     "As ready as I'll ever be." I pull down the sun visor in the passenger seat, flip open the mirror, and take one final look at my crooked smile. "Alright." I say with a sigh. "Let's do this." We walk into the building and find the right suite. The orthodontic office is small, with a coffee table, some magazines and Emmah's favourite, a nook with video games.

"Hello!" The lady behind the counter sings,
"Hi." I smile at her.

     While my little sister gets lost in an intense Super Mario battle, I take a seat beside my mom and crack open my book again. I've just barely finished my page when the lady tells me I can go back into the room. I hand my book to my mom and walk through the door.

     "Hey," Another lady says to me. "Just take a seat in the first chair." I walk past a few small rooms, almost all of which I've been in before for consultation, x-rays etc. There's an open space with four or five dental chairs and I sit in the first one, as directed. I look across the room to the last chair. The very one that I sat in just a few weeks ago to get molds made of my teeth. I remember watching another girl that day, probably my age, sitting where I am now and thinking about when it would be my turn. Now it is.
     The lady comes around the corner. "So, you nervous for today? Or excited? or just dreading it?" I laugh.

     "Actually, surprisingly, I'm excited." She smiles.
     "Good. It's no big deal really."

     "Yeah," I say. "My cousin and my friend were both telling me the braces didn't hurt that much...going on." She gives a light laugh.
     "Oh, no. Going on they don't hurt at all. Afterwards they get a little sore, but not much." I smile at her and as if on cue, the orthodontist comes around the corner and sits in a chair. 

     "Hello." He says.

     "Hi."

     "Who came with you today again?" He asks.
     "Uh, my mom...I mean, my sister came too, but I don't think that matters." I laugh and the lady gives me a friendly smile. The orthodontist slides his chair up to me and explains what exactly he's going to do.

    "It shouldn't take long." He says. "Maybe twenty minutes."

     "That's it?" I say sarcastically.

     "Yup, it's pretty easy actually." He puts the chair back and asks me to open my mouth. For the next few minutes it's occupied with suction tubes, some large pieces of metal that stretch my mouth all kinds of ways and several other tools that I can only feel. I stare at a sprinkler in the ceiling with great interest until suddenly he stops. I think he might have finally finished polishing my teeth when he sits me up. "Ok," He says. "You're braces are on, I just have to attach the wire and you're good to go." I'm surprised.
     
     "That was fast." I say. He shrugs.

     "I told you, it's easy." I probe the metal squares with my tongue.

     In seconds, my wire's on and I'm finished. The orthodontist walks me over to where there's a sink with mouthwash, toothbrushes and floss and tells me to rinse up while I wait for my mom. Slowly, I half open my mouth, scared for what the results might be. I'm relieved when I see that I don't look half as bad I as was expecting. I had specifically told them not to put coloured braces on and now I'm glad that this was my decision because I actually like the way I look.

     My mom comes into the room and the orthodontist explains certain pressure issues that I'll have and how to treat them and whatnot and after he leaves, the original lady that greeted us shows me how to clean my teeth. There's a wax I can use in case the braces are scraping my cheeks, and a special brush that goes between the wires, and plastic needles that I need to use to thread the floss. It's basically a ritual that I have to perform after every meal. And already, I'm not looking forward to it.

     When the lady finishes her speech, she hands me a plastic bag with supplies and mom and I walk back out to the waiting room. I can't stop touching the foreign metal with my tongue. "So," The lady says. "You can call us if you need anything, or if you have any questions." It's then my mom has the idea to ask about food choices...mistake.
     "Nothing sticky or crunchy or hard. No meat on the bone, and for the first few days, no toast." She says. The second lady I met is sitting beside the first and continues,

     "There's a list in your bag, but to get more specific: No nuts, popped corn, gummy bears, caramel, toffee, potato chips, chicken wings, bread, gum..." the list goes on and the more she talks, the more my heart starts to sink. "So," She smiles afterwards. "You still excited?" I laugh.

     "Yup!" I give a sarcastic grin.

     Once we're back in the car, Emmah passes me a gift bag from the back seat. No doubt she's made me something to help make the transition into my braces easier. "What's this?" I ask and as I open it, I smile. She's painted me a picture. Of a teddy bear. Holding a bouquet of flowers and smiling. On his teeth sits a silver pipe cleaner that looks like a set of braces. "Thank you!" I giver her a hug.

     "It's your braces buddy!" She says. I love my little sister. 

     As we drive out of the parking lot, I pull down the sun visor again to get a better look at my mouth. Me and my braces buddy, we match. This won't be so bad. I think. But as we head onto the road my stomach growls and I'm filled with a terrible thought. What am I going to eat?